How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 02:02
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
According to Trump, Ukraine started the war. Why?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What I need from you?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How do I explain to my husband that my 19-year-old son has accidentally gotten me pregnant?
Making more friends is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Why do people with trauma easily recognize other people with trauma through eye contact?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Does not procrastinate.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Do Americans realize how much goodwill and credibility they've lost in the past two weeks?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can one learn to talk frankly?
Ask yourself:
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
What parts of the Bible, if any, are inappropriate to read to children? Why?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
How was your JEE Advanced 2024 result?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Do many women shave their vaginas?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
That's it for today.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?